What Will My Baby Look Like?

Last Updated: January 30, 2024
Liesel Teen, RN-BSN

By Liesel Teen

BSN, RN, Practicing Labor and Delivery Nurse

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Bringing a new life into the world is an incredible journey filled with wonder and anticipation. One of the most exciting aspects of expecting a baby is thinking, “What will my baby look like??”

Will they inherit your eyes or their dad’s nose? What about their hair color or build? This article is your guide to understanding how genetics factor into what your baby will look like. 

We’ll explore dominant and recessive genes, the world of Punnett squares, and address common questions like, “What color hair will my baby have?” and “Who will my baby look like – Mom or Dad?” 

Let’s dive into the fascinating science of baby appearances and put your curiosity to rest!

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How genetics factor into what your baby will look like

To understand what your baby will look like, we need to start with genetics. It’s like a unique recipe with ingredients from both parents. Genes come in pairs, and they determine our traits. 

When it comes to dominant and recessive genes, think of dominant as “strong” and recessive as “shy.” In terms of eye and hair color, brown is often considered the dominant gene, while blue is recessive. However, it’s not always as simple as that.

Genes don’t always play by straightforward rules. Sometimes, a dominant gene for a specific trait may exist but not express itself due to the presence of a recessive gene. 

That’s the fascinating aspect of genetics – the interplay of these genes can lead to surprising combinations.

Punnett squares for predicting what baby will look like

Imagine Punnett squares as your playful toolkit for unlocking the secrets of genetic inheritance. These grids, named after British geneticist Reginald Punnett, are like crystal balls that help you predict what traits your baby might inherit from you and your partner. They’re a fun way to make educated guesses about the fascinating world of genetics.

Punnett squares are a visual representation of how genes combine in offspring by accounting for those dominant and recessive genes we talked about above.

Example:

Let’s say you and your partner are both carriers of a recessive gene for blue eyes, while brown eyes are dominant. The Punnett square helps you see the possibilities for your baby’s eye color. By filling in the squares with you and your partner’s genetic information, you can visualize the likelihood of your baby having brown, blue, or even a combination of eye colors.

In the world of predicting your baby’s traits, Punnett squares are like a fun and interactive game. They provide a peek into the genetic “ingredients” your baby might inherit and make the journey of anticipating your little one’s appearance even more exciting.

What color hair will my baby have?

Hair color is another intriguing aspect of your baby’s appearance. But it’s not just about dominant and recessive genes; there’s a bit more complexity involved. The color of your baby’s hair depends on a variety of genes working together, not just one or two.

For example, the MC1R gene is involved in the production of melanin, the pigment responsible for hair color. It can produce different shades, from black to blonde and everything in between. The combination of genes from both parents will determine your baby’s hair color.

It’s also worth noting that hair color can change during the first few months of life, so don’t be surprised if your little one’s locks go through some changes.

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What color eyes will my baby have?

The genetics behind eye color is a blend of multiple genes, each playing its part in determining the final hue. However, let’s keep it simple and light-hearted.

The eye color of your baby can be predicted by the combination of genes from both parents. 

Here are some things to keep in mind about baby eye color:

  • If both parents have blue eyes, their baby will almost certainly have blue eyes
  • If both parents have brown eyes, there’s a good chance their baby will have brown eyes too
  • If one parent has blue eyes and the other has brown eyes, it’s more of a toss up! 
  • If one or more grandparents have blue eyes, the chances of baby having blue eyes increases slightly

The Punnett square I mentioned earlier can help you visualize the chances of different eye colors in your unique situation.

And remember, genetics can be a bit unpredictable, and your baby’s eye color may change during their first year. 

So, don’t be surprised if those beautiful baby blues eventually transform into another hue.

What will my baby’s height and build be like?

While eye and hair color are fascinating, let’s not forget about height and build. Genetics play a significant role here too. 

Taller parents tend to have taller children, but it’s not an absolute guarantee. Various genes influence growth and height, and environmental factors, including nutrition during pregnancy and childhood, also play their part.

As for your baby’s build, genetics can contribute to the general body shape. If you and your partner have certain body types, your baby might inherit aspects of those. 

However, keep in mind that genetics is just one part of the equation. Your baby’s diet, exercise habits, and overall health during their upbringing will also impact their height and build.

Who will my baby look like? Mom or Dad?

One of the most common questions expectant parents have is, “Who will my baby look like – mom or dad?” It’s a fun topic for conversation and speculation. Will your baby inherit your dimples or your partner’s smile? The answer is, it’s a blend of both.

Babies inherit traits from both parents, and these traits often mix in unique and surprising ways. Sometimes, a baby may resemble one parent more in their early days and then switch to looking like the other parent as they grow. 

It’s a continuous source of joy and surprise for parents, and that’s what makes every child special!

Myth vs fact of baby’s looking more like their dad

I guess that depends on who you ask (Mom or Dad)…only kidding! There have been tons of studies done over the years (and decades) on this exact topic. 

Pretty much all of them conclude that some babies look more like their fathers, some babies look more like their mothers, but most babies resemble both parents.

As I mentioned above, babies inherit traits from their mother and their father, so their features are usually a blend of both Mom and Dad. 

All of this to say that I’m going to have to stamp this one as a big ole’ myth!

Look at your baby pictures before you’re due (and after!)

Looking at your baby pictures is an exciting thing for you and your partner to do and can also add a fun, personalized touch to your baby shower as well. 

You can have all your guests submit a baby picture of themselves ahead of time and play “Guess the Baby”. Another approach would be to print several baby pictures of both you and your partner, cut them up into small pieces, and have guests put them back together like a puzzle.

If nothing else, it is pretty cool to compare baby to yours and your partner’s pictures once they arrive! You can see first hand, what features your baby got from each of you! 

You can also continue to compare them as baby grows to see how they change and if they begin to favor one of you over the other.

There you have it!

Well, mama, I hope you enjoyed my little spiel on genetics. 

And whether or not you found the Punnett squares talk to be…less than riveting, you can’t deny how cool and simply amazing genetics actually are! 

Cheers to an even better birth!

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Liesel Teen, RN-BSN

Liesel Teen

BSN, RN, Practicing Labor and Delivery Nurse

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